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[landy andy]

I'm clearly destined for hell.

my hairy palms and poor vision are proof enough

We'll start a TMF suppoort group.

[Dazza IOW]

IM straight but wouldnt mind two lesbians any offers pm me

[*Raz*]

Yup, I dont mind people knowing my shexuality

Anyway, straight, or lesbian trapped in man's body.

*raises eyebrow* I can seee you!!

^^by what Jammy says, that makes me a lesbian

giggedy giggedy

Edited by *Raz*, 08 September 2008 - 10:43 PM.

[Ethel]

Wow this topic has been busy

Captain Jack (eponym of a fictional time traveller 'n sausage jockey ),

To dip in to a spot of evolutionary biology, any trait that survives countless generations of DNA splicing is natural. If women dropped a couple of thousand sprogs in the shallow end of your local leisure pool 'n left 'em to it, like your average amphibian, you'd have a point. Since mammals, and humans in particular, go a little further with parenting bit; there's a distinct advantage to being raised in a social group with a few spare adults knocking around, even if they do wear dungarees or have a taste for musical theatre.

There are many advantages for social animals to use sex for more than knocking out sprogs. Though, as you rightly observed, since it's main reason behind everything we do; batting for the other side can confer advantages on individuals in the baby making stakes too.

We're complex animals but everything we do has an evolutionary context: being queer, queer bashing, mixed race relationships, racism, even religious abstinence; they're all part of a reproductive strategy.

yeah shes in year 8, im in year 10. im constantly getting abuse about the age difference and get called a "pedo" which i really dont think is justified.

Alas the strategy that's most in vogue at the mo is a strong aversion to paedophilia, to the point where it's irrational hysteria. Once you turn 16, the law will apply to your amorous interests, just as it would to 40 year old in a dirty raincoat, without any distinction.

Edited by Ethel, 09 September 2008 - 12:51 AM.

[photographymatt]

Wow this topic has been busy

Captain Jack (eponym of a fictional time traveller 'n sausage jockey ),

good points as usual ethel(the bits I deleted just) but about the bit above....while the actor is gay, the character he play comes from a more open time, where you dont just have man and woman, you have aliens too and non-caporeal beings so he is very much pansexual(if you have to attache a name) as is dc who, if you saw them two flirt in one episode...it was the funniest thing ever!

[MiniDick]

Craig, I honestly don't know what I'd do if one of my lads turned out to be gay, it's a situation you can't really comment on until it happens, of course I hope that they will be straight. Discussions like this annoy me sometimes as you can get flamed for being a "Homophobe" just because you don't like to see two men kissing etc. It's like being shouted down as a racist if you say that there are too many immigrants in the country. Nobody can deny the fact that it's meant to men and women together, my Lesbian sister in law and her friends also agree, but they also say that you can't help who you are if you're born that way. There are a lot of gays who bang on about being gay, which gets on my nerves, I don't bang on about having sex with girls at every opportunity.

[Juju]

Ooooooh this is still going!!


From hetties, to homs, to zoophiles to autoerotica! We are truly a diverse species.


Today I will be mostly fancying cake. I hope nobody objects.


(oh, and by the way, people who let their pets lick their mouths......I hope you're all using listerine..... )

[666junky]

Lesbian action bores me.

I can't see why some guys love it...

Says you when lis and jess were openly swapping bras and kissing infront of you....

[photographymatt]

rats are very clean animals, well..the boys were:-) all they did is chill out and clean themselfs and each other. the girls were lazy smelly beasts;-) the mom (warrick) bit my thumb down to the bone...ouch

[Bean]

12?? She'd be year 7/8??

yeah shes in year 8, im in year 10. im constantly getting abuse about the age difference and get called a "pedo" which i really dont think is justified.

When my Mr was in year 10, I was in playgroup - aged 3!

Age makes absolutely no difference and it really doesn't matter!

[Angelic_Fruitcake]

12?? She'd be year 7/8??

yeah shes in year 8, im in year 10. im constantly getting abuse about the age difference and get called a "pedo" which i really dont think is justified.

When my Mr was in year 10, I was in playgroup - aged 3!

Age makes absolutely no difference and it really doesn't matter!

Same here, nearly; when I was leaving primary school, my Mr was collecting his degree. He's 9 years older than I am, and we're so happy age is nothing, just a number.

Don't let them give you stick for it. They'll all be wanting younger women when they're in their 40s!

[Ethel]

(oh, and by the way, people who let their pets lick their mouths......I hope you're all using listerine..... )

What about rimming a Rotweiler, is that also a No No?

[Angelic_Fruitcake]

(oh, and by the way, people who let their pets lick their mouths......I hope you're all using listerine..... )

What about rimming a Rotweiler, is that also a No No?

[scrog]

straight all my life (40odd years)
married to rachel we meet when she was 15 i was 19
got a house when she was 18 me 22
married when she was 21 me 25
married for 18 years now
5 fantastic kids
and very happy

what others do or feel or think really dont bother me as long as they are not in my face about it
only thing that does get me about gay and lesbian people is when they decide to adopt kids
thier choice of life style means they can not have kids (naturaly??)
but yet they seem to think they can have it both ways
bit of this and a bit of that
either gay and no kids or straight and kids

Edited by scrog, 09 September 2008 - 10:34 AM.

[Angelic_Fruitcake]

only thing that does get me about gay and lesbian people is when they decide to adopt kids
thier choice of life style means they can not have kids (naturaly??)
but yet they seem to think they can have it both ways
bit of this and a bit of that
either gay and no kids or straight and kids

I have to say I disagree there, to be honest. There is no reason, just because two loving, responsible people cannot have children naturally, that they should not be able to give a home to a child in need, just because of who they love.

Edited by Angelic_Fruitcake, 09 September 2008 - 10:45 AM.