I think I've attached a picture to this which shows the problem.

Just for the information of the parts we've used
Car - 1962 Mk1
Swivel Hub - Standard disk mini (Car unknown, presume it is off an 8.4" disc later mini)
Bearings - Timken Taper bearings
CV joints - Disc CV joints, on the box they say 1275 is this correct?
Drive flanges - as far as we are aware they are metro drive flanges, (bought of ebay so they might not be correct, look to be about 12-13mm thick they did have the four lugs on which we had machined off)
Discs - as far as we're aware they are standard mini 8.4" machined down to 7.9", again bought of ebay
Caliper - Fiesta mk1
We tried tightening the castle nut as hard as possible, which brought the drive flange and disc in a little, but I doubt it's going to move in by 3mm. Another thing which we weren't sure about which could maybe affect the spacing is that our bearing kit didn't come with the split space (between the inner race and the inner grease seal) we put the one in from the old one, following the haynes, could this be the problem?
Anyone got any ideas what the problem could be, would like to solve the problem rather than putting in some washers, thanks for any help!
Also putting the brake pads in looks a bit baffling, anyone got any good pictures of this or can give us a few pointers? and another thing we messed up putting on the metal ties to hold the CV boot on turned out it was kinked and wasn't as tight as we thought, any good methods to making sure these are tight and secure?
cheers for any help!