The pink/blue and orange/slate.
and
Orange/blue and orange/green
If you look at the pic you will see I have 2 sets of leads blue hi and low and green high and low.
Now since the motor drives to a neutral difference i don't think the swapping of the pairs matter as much as the hi and low.
I have the highs on the pink/blue and the orange/green wires. That's stepper phase 2 and 3.
Hope it helps but mine is a GM system so the names are a little different.
That's why you see the spade connectors...so I could swap them till it worked.

Now to your...where are you monting your knock sensor?
I didn't install mine just because I couldn't decide on a good spot to put it.
Normally they go in the block leading to the water jacket. Like a block drain hole.
When are you going to run the manifold heater? I didn't even hook mine up. Just the coolant for now. Seems to be working fine but I may run 12V to it as a test to see if it makes any difference in the AFR while running.