a switch is a switch obviously that works either way with no trouble at all just closing the circuit
if you can't make the illuminated switch work in reverse due to some issue with pin layout, or a built in resistor or something then why not just use a standard toggle switch and mount your own LED above or below which can be wired up the right way
may not be the exact layout or style you had in mind but certainly less agro than rewiring your car in any significant way
Edited by stuart bowes, 14 November 2023 - 10:08 PM.