I'm sorry to hear you are going thru this, especially right at the end of all your hard work. I have run into many electrical issues during my build. What I found helps to sort thru these issues is to draw out the electrical circuit in question on paper. Once you know you have a layout that makes sense, go back to the car and test every wire and component involved. Assume nothing. Verify and re-verify everything. Every time I eventually found something that I missed and usually it was something that I assumed was correct or didn't fully verify. If you keep at it, you will solve this problem so hang in there.
Best of luck!