I don't know how feasible this is but it doesn't sound like it's been tried if it is possible.
Have you tried swapping one of the known good injectors in to the bad cylinder? If it then still runs but starts to die when you disconnect the bad cylinder, you know the cylinder is good and the replacement injector you got is still bad. It's also opportunity to test the replacement injector in a known good cylinder.
I hope you followed that, I almost got lost myself!
Process of elimination is key and it sounds like you've been through the majority of the rest of it. I want to see you succeed as you've put alot of effort in already!