The subframe mounting rubbers are indeed a serious problem. The toeboard mounts were always prone to fracture or de-bonding, even when genuine parts were used. I would advise always fitting a full solid mount kit, with toeboard reinforcement, and enjoy the improved handling, instead of messing about with doubtful rubbers. You will probably want to add some top quality sound insulation to the bulkhead and toeboard area to restore the noise level to its former level, or less.
At the back, poly bushes in all 4 subframe mounts will do the trick and don't have much effect on noise level, but again it is possible to add insulation to the rear floor area, boot and inside of heelboard if necessary.
But what about suspension bushes? The lower arms can, not very effectively in my opinion, be replaced by poly, but if you do that with the tie rods things become dangerous, with tie rods known to break due to fatigue fracture because the poly is not compressible. It is usual to use one poly each side, in front of the mount, and one rubber behind the mount to avoid the problem. Rose joints are not appropriate on a road car where some controlled amount of compliance is needed for a basic level of comfort. Also the rose jointed tie bar kits on the market are an amateurish design which is quite abominable as it substantially moves the pivot centre and gives partial trailing geometry to the lower arm, with castor change on bumps. I think a redesign of that area may be necessary...
Engine steadies could usefully use a rose joint at the engine end, but poly at the body or subframe end is too harsh and noisy. I am thinking hard about that one...