Well I've managed to get the rubber cone and trumpet out but I went to rather extreme measures not to butcher it...

I couldn't get it out as it was and needed more access. The trumpet was damaged when it wasn't seated properly and I released the pressure on the cone, so I'm going to replace it as I'm not happy putting it back knowing it's damaged.
The moral to the story is to make sure the trumpet is seated properly when releasing the pressure on the cone. Lesson learnt and I shall try not to do it again!!
I also managed to strip the threads on the compression tool I had so now I'm going to buy a more expensive Pickavant one. Anybody used one and got any comments?
Paul.