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[Shifty]

You cant prove their my jubblies

I can..

 

[MaxAndPaddy]

please tell me thats a finger

[Shifty]

Ask heather...

[megamini_jb]

please tell me that a finger

Hahahhahaahahah. I hope you thought what I was thinking

Edited by megamini_jb, 28 June 2014 - 10:47 PM.

[HarrysMini]

Thought I clicked on the wrong tab then..

[samsfern]

So I started talking to a lass that works in my local as a waitress, a few weeks ago, and have been seeing her since then, like going out for days out and stuff, we stayed in a hotel in London last weekend, and done thorpe park in the week, were golden together. I knew she was going travelling soon, but she leaves for Thailand for 6 weeks on Saturday, so I'm having some serious thoughts going through my head, such as selling the fiesta, jacking my job in and going with her, or just forgetting about her altogether, or just staying here until she gets back, but I know what would happen to me if I stayed here. She also starts university in London in September or sometime like that, which isn't a huge problem, I've got a car and can drive. Just not sure what to do.... The main thought I'm swaying towards is selling the fiesta tommorow, booking a flight and telling my boss to poke his job where the sun don't shine... My head is all over the place, and I quit drinking altogether last weekend, so that's not really helping my head at the moment

[Miniminx71]

6 weeks isn't long. Can you not, say, take a 2 week break and go and join her for a holiday nd see how you get on being with her 24/7 instead of jacking everything in?

[samsfern]

That was another thought, but I hate my job at the moment, due to various reasons, such as being accused of using drugs at work, after I stank the tearoom out with garlic and herb chicken one lunch time, the boss thought it smelt like something, and the fact they won't grant me any holiday, because "I've used all my holiday and were really busy at that time of year" which is why I'd just leave it, it's just not a nice place to be, put simply.

Edited by samsfern, 28 June 2014 - 11:22 PM.

[Mini-Mad-Craig]

So I started talking to a lass that works in my local as a waitress, a few weeks ago, and have been seeing her since then, like going out for days out and stuff, we stayed in a hotel in London last weekend, and done thorpe park in the week, were golden together. I knew she was going travelling soon, but she leaves for Thailand for 6 weeks on Saturday, so I'm having some serious thoughts going through my head, such as selling the fiesta, jacking my job in and going with her, or just forgetting about her altogether, or just staying here until she gets back, but I know what would happen to me if I stayed here. She also starts university in London in September or sometime like that, which isn't a huge problem, I've got a car and can drive. Just not sure what to do.... The main thought I'm swaying towards is selling the fiesta tommorow, booking a flight and telling my boss to poke his job where the sun don't shine... My head is all over the place, and I quit drinking altogether last weekend, so that's not really helping my head at the moment

 

Get a grip Sam. You need a job to survive and she isn't going to want a man that can't support her, jumps in on her trip that she's probably had planned long before you came along and just drops everything in his life when she clicks her fingers. If you can't survive 6 weeks then it isn't even worth bothering because a relationship will face you with way mroe challenges than that.

 

My boyfriend has been away for 2 weeks and has 2 more to go. He's working at a Mini garage in America and I'm gutted because I want to be there with him so bad, but I couldn't be, I can't just leave my job and drop everything i have to be with him... life doesn't work like that. But it's been an amazing two and a half years and I know we have the rest of our lives to do stuff exactly like this together, just be patient and see how it goes

[samsfern]

I wouldn't be worried about work when I get back, I've got a few friends that I know would be able to help out there. She's asked me to go with her on several occasions too. But yeah, you do have some very valid points there Craig.

[Miniminx71]

Also, does she feel the same way? Would she want you tagging along on her gap break?

[JacckKirk]

My girlfriend didnt say she loved me back before she fell asleep so im back here
#teenageproblems

[Mini-Mad-Craig]

I wouldn't be worried about work when I get back, I've got a few friends that I know would be able to help out there. She's asked me to go with her on several occasions too. But yeah, you do have some very valid points there Craig.

 

I'm on the road now, we'll have to meet up at some point Maidstone services Mg-Rover meet? ;) 

[JacckKirk]

Sam just text her or phone her tomorrow and just be like "ive had a crazy idea, why dont i come with you to thailand?" Therefore if she says yes happy days ... If she says noo you can play it off like "aww ill miss you "

[Mini-Mad-Craig]

My girlfriend didnt say she loved me back before she fell asleep so im back here
#teenageproblems

 

The question is, did she fall asleep before saying goodnight entirely?