Thanks guys, I'll check it out tomorrow in the morning.
Individual relays can be sourced. Open frame version of Omron G8P 12V is similar.
I would also be checking the circuit board of the MFU once open for cracks and re soldering the connections.
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Ok, it is looking like Guess-works.com was right from the beginning. The MFU is acting up. One of the fat brown wires feeds power to the main relay and the fuel pump relay. The fuel pump relay is activated by the white wire coming from the ignition switch that also activates the ECU pin 11.
The main relay is activated by a thin white/pink wire coming from the ECU pin 4. The output from that relay, fat brown/pink wire, goes to several locations including the + side of the ignition coil. If any of those related functions are not operating properly, the car would no start. It seems that the only thing not working right is the fuel pump relay.
I think that you need to resolve this problem first before attacking the other. The pump relay might be intermittent causing the other issue.
You might want to open the relay box and inspect it using FlyingScot's info. The contacts could be dirty and cleaning them with a finger nail file might do the trick.