In the meantime there's always the rent boy

Posted 19 February 2013 - 09:06 AM
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Posted 19 February 2013 - 11:22 AM
I'm sorry it didn't work out but I know that there were genuine difficulties, and that this is more than just about you being 'a quitter'.
I seem to be in the minority on here in thinking that it isn't ok to treat young people poorly, just because they are starting off at the bottom. While this may have been acceptable a generation ago, I don't think it is now. I have employed and trained a number of teenagers over the years and never felt the need to treat them less well than my other employees. Of course they are given less interesting jobs at times, because they don't have the experience to do the more challenging interesting work and I've had to explain to some of them what is required in the workplace, but in principle, as an employer I believe in that everyone regardless of experience has the right to be treated fairly and humanely. This might make me sound soft and fluffy, which I am not, but I am clear in my expectations and support employees to meet those expectations. I also do not make assumptions about young people as I have had some dire ones, some great ones and a simply fantastic one.
Chin up, keep positive and keep yourself busy while you find yourself another job
Anyway Craig - I hope you have better luck finding a decent pimp
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Posted 19 February 2013 - 11:25 AM
Whilst I enjoy working on cars, theres no way I'd want to earn my living fixing them.
Cards on the table I'm a bit disappointed that you didn't stick it out longer, but thats entirely your decision and I'm sure you had your reasons. I spent most of my apprenticeship fighting against the other fitter(theres not many people in the world that I genuinely hate but he's still top of my list!!) and I know its not fun.
Have you considered trying engineering? I'm a maintenance engineer in a factory, I get to build machines, fix stuff and lots of interesting stuff. The pay is way better than being a mechanic(I earn about £10k a year more than my mechanic mates)
Posted 19 February 2013 - 11:29 AM
- Apprentice Manager VAA.
Posted 19 February 2013 - 12:24 PM
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Posted 19 February 2013 - 06:40 PM
on the first day back last week he'd just changed, treating me as though I'd been there and known him for years.
HAHA Ex military? That's what gets said to us. "Shut up this is a one way conversation".they are taken to one side where a one sided conversation will be held.
Posted 19 February 2013 - 08:10 PM
Thanks for the replies everybody, I've read them all.
I left this morning. Because I'm a quitter and that's what I do.
I really wasn't getting on with the guy at all, and being with him for 8 hours a day was all just building up. He expected me to have experience in everything we were doing, I had to remind him that I am an 'apprentice' to stop him huffing and puffing whenever I got something wrong, which under the pressure he was putting me in by standing eagle eyed staring whilst I did something I'd just told him I wasn't confident with was a lot.
He also seemed to be trying to catch me out as a liar in everything, not just in the work. He'd talk to me and try and trick me into saying the wrong things and then do this awkward silence followed by a small laugh, it was just massively patronising and not nice really. I'm not a liar and didn't lie to him once, but he just didn't seem to trust me or something along those lines! It just made me feel uneasy.
I know that it was potentially a good opportunity, but I was dreading each day let alone knowing I have another 3 years and 8 months of it. I'd rather just leave now so that he can find somebody else to take on before September than stay and just end up leaving during.
I know that from other peoples points of view I could have stuck it out, more than for 15 days, but after 3 days I think I'd realised that I wasn't going to get on with him, and that never really went away. He played the nice guy for my first week, and then on the first day back last week he'd just changed, treating me as though I'd been there and known him for years.
Thanks for the replies though everybody. It has been a boost in confidence just to have gotten the job, and I won't base the rest of what I apply for on this experience, but I feel sure to say that repairing and servicing isn't really for me.
Posted 19 February 2013 - 08:22 PM
Posted 19 February 2013 - 08:43 PM
I think saying you're disappointed in Craig is very harsh, if not nasty.
Sometimes, things are not meant to be and if you really don't like someone as Jason said, then you're better off leaving. Have you had a look on the apprenticeship website?
Is there any Mini specialists in Kent/near you? Maybe its worth asking them if they'd be interested in an apprentice?
Posted 19 February 2013 - 08:47 PM
Posted 19 February 2013 - 09:00 PM
I think saying you're disappointed in Craig is very harsh, if not nasty.
Sometimes, things are not meant to be and if you really don't like someone as Jason said, then you're better off leaving. Have you had a look on the apprenticeship website?
Is there any Mini specialists in Kent/near you? Maybe its worth asking them if they'd be interested in an apprentice?
Yep, Nobody needs a kick in the balls when they are feeling down.
Posted 19 February 2013 - 09:43 PM
Edited by valve bounce, 19 February 2013 - 09:45 PM.
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