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#16 Guest_transgenderminifan_*

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 05:50 PM

"there appears to be quiet a few gay forum members which is great"

Why is it great? I could say that most forum members are straight and that's great, but it isnt :thumbsup: it's just... more or less reflective of society in general.

I don't think it matters, especially on a mini forum, what gender, sexuality or orientation you are. To me it is completely irrelevant.

Until topics like this come up and I have to ask, why? :wub:

I'm sure most "transgendered" people just want to get on with their life and when they see topics like this, probably are getting more attention than they particularly want themselves.


Ok point taken when i said "there appears to be quiet a few gay forum members which is great" i meant it appears on the whole most TMF members whether gay or not are accepting.

I agree i myself just want to get on with my life i really only posted this thread to gauge opinion and to compliment the sexuality thread.

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 05:52 PM

Fair do's, but it goes without saying that most people are accepting of people of that orientation really.

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 06:19 PM

I don't really care which way any of my friends swing, dangle, like their hokey cokey etc.

I would like to quash the rumours now though and say I am not transgenderminifan.

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 06:52 PM

I don't really care which way any of my friends swing, dangle, like their hokey cokey etc.

I would like to quash the rumours now though and say I am not transgenderminifan.


I would also like to agree Verns Playmate definately isnt me i just hope others dont try and wrong guess who i am thats just not fair on others that get caught in the crossfire. Ive concealed my identity for obvious reasons this way i can just carry on without anybody knowing,so i hope nobody starts any rumours of who i might be?

Like my gender who i am is irrelivant.

And a bigg Sorry To Verns playmate if ive caused you any grief by posting this thread.

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 07:24 PM

No offence taken, it made me chuckle :thumbsup:

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 07:31 PM

somebody said this to me once...

''it doesnt bother me who you are or what you do. where you live or what you look like. you like i am a person with a heart just a different shell with the same insides''

simple but true!

Fair do's, but it goes without saying that most people are accepting of people of that orientation really


i think you'll find they're not though. most folk don't like people that break the norm - it doesnt concern me in the slightest who or what someone is. there is no reason for it to

if you think of it like a mini...putting a clubman front on a roundnose mini doesnt make that mini any less of a mini because it has a different face than it was made with

people should just be left to do what they want and not get any *rubbish* of anyone else the world's an a******e of a place at the best of times

what matters is being happy. nothing else

Edited by Minigirl, 10 October 2008 - 07:35 PM.


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Posted 10 October 2008 - 09:37 PM

i'm going too try and post this without being stupid, we all know its quite difficult for me. i shall keep it short.

in my mind, and im sure the mind of the majority here, it doesnt matter what gender you are, what gender you choose too have relationships with. all it really matters is, that your a nice person. someone that you can trust. a good friend too all you know.

it doesnt matter if you pink and spotty like mr blobby, black,brown, yellow or a shade of red. as long as you are the best person you can be.

i'd also like too retract my rant at pretzil, apologises too you sir and anyone who wasoffended my little rant.

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 10:16 PM

I know its not to do with the topic, but the Admins will know what your other account is, as its running off the same IP address...

I just thought i woul let you know.

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 10:23 PM

oh get a grip - does it matter how many accounts the person has?
non offensive, positive subject matter. let it run.

or are the mary-poppins school of internet etiquette going to pop a Y2k again ?

jeeeeeeeez.




carry on..............................

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 10:39 PM

oh get a grip - does it matter how many accounts the person has?
non offensive, positive subject matter. let it run.

or are the mary-poppins school of internet etiquette going to pop a Y2k again ?

jeeeeeeeez.




carry on..............................



I was only saying as "transgenderminifan" said they didnt acctually want anyone to know who they were.

And as for the topic, personally i dont feel it is a very good thead.

The reason i say this is becasuse i personally have a close family member thats is a transexual and she has had the full surgery. And she just wants to try and get on with here life, she feels she has missed out on a large part of here life being a male as she has always felt like a woman, but just wasnt visually a femail.

So now in here life only really close friends know about her as she just want to try and be nateral to how she feels she is...

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 10:42 PM

the o.p will want too remain unknown for good reasons. its a criminal offence for the admin fo this site too "out" the person.

it doesnt matter who or what you are. as long as you are a great person. no doubt that transgenderminifan is :thumbsup:

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Posted 11 October 2008 - 09:00 AM

i accept wolfys appoligy :thumbsup:
i dont hold grudges i just throw my toys out of the pram then get back into it haha
as for the transgender person im glad for you :techsupport: dont worry about people outing you *they shouldnt and wont!* but aslong as your happy for who you are then good for you
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Posted 11 October 2008 - 09:15 AM

i accept wolfys appoligy :thumbsup:
i dont hold grudges i just throw my toys out of the pram then get back into it haha
as for the transgender person im glad for you :techsupport: dont worry about people outing you *they shouldnt and wont!* but aslong as your happy for who you are then good for you
xXxXxPrEtZiLxXxXx

hmm iv been reading the whole thing in depth i agree with alot on here. they wont out transgender mini as it is not right! i understand part ways about how people feel as at one point in my life i was very down and out because i didnt know what i wanted,who i wanted,what i wanted to do/wear/etc. i started taking drugs,drinking and spirald it that way untill i was like what the hell am i doing?!
so i understand with people for that sense as iv kinda ben through it myself.
and can i just say
like someone said earlier its not your colour,shape,smell or so on that matters its your personality! got a great one and people will love you,if your just a as**ole then they wont.

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Posted 11 October 2008 - 09:41 AM

Just to nip the IP address thing in the bud. TMF aint going to 'out' anyone. First off, two different people can have the same IP address, some people have different IP addresses every time they post. Then there are the moral implications of doing that. I know for a fact that none of the four admin guys (the only ones who could easily match an IP address from one poster to the IP address of another poster) would be willing, or want to 'out' our transgenderminifan.

As for the post, I am not concerned with who you are, what sex you are, what preferences you have, what colour your skin is, what type of drink you like, what type of food you eat, what type of shoes you like to wear, where you buy your hats from...........

IMO we're all just people, trying to get on with other people, we're all just crashing through this short stint in time that we class as our lifetime. That tiny amount of time that we live for is best spent doing things that we enjoy I reckon!

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Posted 11 October 2008 - 09:49 AM

Just to nip the IP address thing in the bud. TMF aint going to 'out' anyone. First off, two different people can have the same IP address, some people have different IP addresses every time they post. Then there are the moral implications of doing that. I know for a fact that none of the four admin guys (the only ones who could easily match an IP address from one poster to the IP address of another poster) would be willing, or want to 'out' our transgenderminifan.

As for the post, I am not concerned with who you are, what sex you are, what preferences you have, what colour your skin is, what type of drink you like, what type of food you eat, what type of shoes you like to wear, where you buy your hats from...........

IMO we're all just people, trying to get on with other people, we're all just crashing through this short stint in time that we class as our lifetime. That tiny amount of time that we live for is best spent doing things that we enjoy I reckon!

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Sorry about that Matt i didnt mean that the admins would acctually say anything or even check, as there not that kind of people, however i was just stating that it could be found out...




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